Do you practice active parenting? Or, are you content with the view from afar? This thought piqued some curiosity. Here's a question we asked the UNCOMMEN Community recently... What is the most recent milestone you've seen your child accomplish? We received a wide...
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Why Perspective Is Important For Your Marriage
Do you ever have what people like to call tunnel vision? It's the human condition. We all struggle with this, but we need to consider why perspective is important our lives, especially for our marriages. It can change a lot. "Have you eyes of flesh? Do you see as man...
How to Please Your Wife In A Sacrificial Way
As husbands, we are all about pleasing our wives. Sometimes, this can be framed as the center of our existence. We are told to live to serve our wives. Unfortunately, our mindsets can sometimes drift towards the self. Sometimes it's difficult to know how to please...
3 Tips on How to Understand Your Wife
He was sitting on the couch, angry, trying desperately to communicate with his wife. They had never really learned how to fight well. Neither did they communicate well during tense situations. They didn't even remember what they were fighting about, but they could not...
Selfishness is the Root of Sin and it Destroys Relationships
What causes nearly all sin in someone's life? The root of sin usually starts with selfishness. Your desires, wants and needs are the first priority and you'll do anything to achieve those things first. Ephesians 5:13 - "But when anything is exposed by the light, it...
Is Pornography Destroying Your Marriage? The Answer is Yes
Is pornography destroying your marriage? The answer is quite simply, yes. It may not be today but it will, eventually once exposed. "In the same way, husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his...
How to Work on Your Marriage
How to work on your marriage... "You Get Out What You Put In" just needed a little pizzaz, so we made up a word - YGOWUPI. I've seen women spend hundreds of dollars on a shopping spree and jump up and down, trying to get their husband's attention. The man doesn't even...
Building A Healthy Marriage: Your First Steps
Building a healthy marriage? It starts with good habits and intentionality. My dad wore work shoes most of the time. He had a pair of low-top steel-toe shoes that he wore with white socks and pants rolled up, if that paints a picture. He rarely wore dress shoes....
Handling Early Marriage & Financial Struggles
Financial struggles exist. There are always choices to be made about money in marriage regardless of your age. However, when first married, you quickly learn the value of the dollar. When we were first married, we had two incomes. My wife was a grade-school teacher,...
UNCOMMEN Challenge: New Hobbies
If you are a UNCOMMEN member, please ensure you're signed in to view this content. If you aren't a member, please click here to get started. I’ve seen couples drift apart during their marriage due to the fact they have different interests and do not...
Faith is Built in the Waiting Period
Ever wondered why we have to wait so much? I wonder all the time. I will admit I have grown a little more patience with age, but only a few. I frequently want answers to things that I have no clue, and I usually want the answer immediately. Think about it. "Better is...
3 Lessons Taught By Marriage
“For all of us have become like one who is unclean, And all our righteous deeds are like a filthy garment; And all of us wither like a leaf, And our iniquities, like the wind, take us away.” — Isaiah 64:6 Marriage Lessons I can see your face now; yes, I'm only a few...